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writes:so i am extremely confused and am in desperate need of some new perspective on the issue. i met this guy and we hit it off right away he approached me and we just had a great time together. we kissed but nothing more. after that night we texted eachother and he soon asked me to go across the country with him to pick up something that he needed for his work of course i said no kinda odd but, he just didnt want to be loney on the long trip. so he called me and we talked for hours as he was driving. we really got to know eachother. when he returned i met up with him and we hung out and we slept together. it was really amazing and before he left for work he cuddle with me and kissed me a lot and told me he would talk to me after he was done with work. he did and this continued to happen quite a few times. one night he actually asked me to go back with him to his home town for christmas but, i hung out with him and slept over the night he was said he was going home for christmas break. yet again we had a great night, we hung out for a bit and took a bath together. he calls me beautiful and he took me out to dinner this guy seenms really great! however he said he would text me when he went home, this did not happen.. he didnt text me all christmas eve and i texted him "merry christmas" on christmas and he said "merry christmas to you too haha i just woke up lol" and i said "i dont blame you lol you never get to sleep in" (because he works so early in the morning) he didnt say anything.. so later on i texted him "can i call you later on tonight" and nothing!! that was it! what do i do??? i am soo confused. is he just busy at home? but how busy can someone be to not be able to text? like i was extremely busy during the holiday but i prolly checked my phone 100 times! i dont know what to think.. do i let it play out? ignore his next text? just show up at his place? call him? is he just testing me or something? please help me i need some advice!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 There are so many possibilities. Many things could have happened, for all anyone knows, he might have lost his phone. Just wait a little longer, another day or two at most and then text him again, if there is nothing, just forget about him. If he is ignoring you on purpose, he is just a waste of your time.
I hope that helps.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (26 December 2010):
 this is a horrible situation to be in. you have had a great time with this man and now he is being like this. i hope you have by now heard from him,but if not (and i know this is hard) dont contact him, not yet anyway. it sounds to me as if he is a bit more casual about your relationship (if thats a suitable word to use) than you are. keep yourself busy, spend time with people that love you and see what happens with him but dont make waiting for his call the only thing in your life! is someone who treats you like this all over christmas really that great anyway?
wishing you luck with it xx
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