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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: ok so im 17 and my bf is 15 we dated for about 6 months till i broke up with him we got back together now its been 3 months. . everythings great so far but we've been geting sexual and we been wanting to have sex but i have to many what if's in my head and scared that he'll leave me after the sex and if we don't do it then he'll be upset with me and lose intrest i told him that i didn't want him to be upset with me and he said he understood plus we've been only talking on facebook not on the phone is that a healthy relationship. plus we haven'tplan when to do it he said its up to me. i mean i do want to have sex with him but at the same time im afirad he'll leave me and find another girl and if my parents found out i will be disown and force to move out i love this boy to death and he understands but i don't know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): its never complusory to have sex in a relationship and if there are many consequences if you do then there is really no need risking it. if the guy loves you he'll wait and if he doesnt he only wants you for the sex and not because he love you so dont sweat it. its a big decision to give up your virginity take time to think about it and if youre ready, also think about the consequences
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2010): its never complusory to have sex in a relationship and if there are many consequences if you do then there is really no need risking it. if the guy loves you he'll wait and if he doesnt he only wants you for the sex and not because he love you so dont sweat it. its a big decision to give up your virginity take time to think about it and if youre ready, also think about the consequences
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