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writes: Ok whats the crack with this 37 yr old guy. He's been a friend from the pub i go in for the last 3 months. I went to his for coffee and a chin wag a week ago after he invited me. Basically see him as a friend but wouldn't say no to more if i got to know him better and we clicked. He has told me he likes me, but is worried about someone else in the pub that likes me, even though i have told that guy we will never be more than mates. This guy i'm on about txt most days to say hi, and has rung a couple of times for a chat since i went there for coffee. In all honesty i havent contacted him first. Couple of days ago when he rang, after half hour he said he had to go for a bit cuz he had txt on his phone to reply to, but would ring back, which he did half hour later. It seems he's the resident agony uncle apparently. Today i get a txt saying im free for a cuppa later if you want so i said ok what time are you free? He said 6ish so i said ok will pop over about 6. Get a txt from him at 5 saying guy in the pub has problems so is chatting so he might be home a bit later than we said. I said ok txt when your home. Gone 6 comes and im showered and ready, heard nothing, then decided to txt him and say a mate popped over will have to take a rain check and will speak soon.Got vibes he wanted to stay in the pub. Is he a messer do you think?Doesn't sound keen does he? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (2 October 2008):
It definitely sounds as if he's not sure of what he wants. Or could he be playing you, to find out just how interested you are? Has he text or called you since you offered the rain check? It doesn't sound too good, that's for sure.
Good luck,
Michelle
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