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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:The man i used to date last year doesn't give me a lot of interest and as he says he isn't eager for a serious relationship. However i like to go out with him and when he asks me we usually arrange to meet each other. Sometimes he calls me when i have already arranged to go out with other friends as he calls late and days that i am usually out. The last time he called me late and i was out with a common friend. I didn't hear the call and then he called the other guy that i had arranged to go out with him. He is a common friend and he learned that i was out with him. I called then him and i understood that he had understood that i was with the other man. Did this make him jealous or he didn't really cared about this at all. He didn't call me again then. If he calls me again what should i tell him? He made me feel guilty although i think that i shouldn't be. However i really want to be with him but when he calls i usually have something arranged. Should i answear his call when i am already out or is better not answear his phone at all when i am already out? I usually blame myself when i am out and i don't hear his call, i think that it's my fault and i don't care much about him. However, independently from how i feel what's the best way to react when he calls me and i'm already out? Is it better to make him jealous and not give him enough interest?
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reader, charlie p  +, writes (5 October 2009):
Making him jealous may not be the way to go from here...it sounds like he's jealous enough!
Next time he calls, maybe it's time for you to ask him out? This is the 21st century after all! Or, when he calls tell him you're busy that night, but make a fixed date for next week? If you do that text him a few days later to let him know you're looking forward to it, this guy is getting mixed signals in his mind and could se some encouragement!
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