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30-35,
*cewoman
writes:(Semi Long.. but I would really appreciate advice on this) Confused? ..How does he feel?.. I've known this guy since I was a little girl.. we were friends, would talk sometimes.. I remember he always stood out, he was special to me even when I was too little to know anything about love and boys. Later on when I was a bit older, my family decided to move to a different country. I left behind all my friends, family and of course him. As more years passed my memories of *this country* faded but my memory of him was still clear and strong....at age 16 I went back to my country and was excited because I knew that among seeing everyone I would see him too and I wondered if he was still like I remembered him (personality wise) .. it was not surprising that he grew up to be more handsome and intelligent than i ever dreamt he would be.. i remember first time i saw him when i went back, I couldn't look him in the eye and ended up looking at the floor the whole time. He took notice of my shyness and told his sister about it who of course told me.. from then on I made sure I was more bold in my approach to him.. turns out this was the wrong move to make. He retreated and I thought it best if I left him alone. I ended up fooling around with other guys that I used to know .. hoping he would notice me, wrong move again, I know.. I ended up pushing him away more even though the only thing I wanted was to talk to him, get to know him again.. I made myself look like a sl*t, went out partying a lot .. I guess I was just really frustrated that I could never get him to see the real me, so I did all this other stuff.. I then tried to talk to him but he refused and told me that he didn't want to be another one of my boy toys and that I was too vain. Truthfully, I was that summer .. and I wish I could change how I acted. It's been 2 years since then and I still try to get in contact with him.. I've managed to recently ..but I still don't know how he feels about me. ( weird thing i've noticed is that he wont ever say my name.. don't know if it matters, but it's something i've noticed)anyways... I'm not going into depth about what we talked about since I don't even know if anyone will even respond to this. Just typing it out gives me some relief.. but any advice/thoughts would be great, sorry if it's confusing!!!!
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reader, icewoman +, writes (8 July 2008):
icewoman is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you for the advice. I agree it's best that I take my time with him instead of rushing it. I've waited so long and will keep waiting for my chance to show him how I truly feel about him..
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Well if at least his talking to you; if you are carefull and you take it slow; I am sure with time he will get to know you better and will find out for himself who you really are; just give it time and have patience; don't rush and make mistakes;
Good luk.
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