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writes:I just started dating this wonderful woman last fall. She is British, but in the USA for graduate school. Our relationship was just starting to get a little bit serious (though no "L" word yet) when the school year ended and she went back to England for the summer. She will be back to continue her studies in the fall. In the meantime, we talk almost every other day despite the time difference. I am really growing quite fond of her.My question is:She has a birthday coming up and I want to get her something. I asked her what she wanted and she said all she wanted was to have a good celebration with her family and friends. I think that's lovely, but I cannot be there with her for that. I'd like to send her something, but I am not sure what to send her. I know she likes fancy lingerie, but maybe that's too forward and I am not sure I know her size well. I think maybe it's too early in the relationship for expensive jewelry. I thought maybe I'd make her something like a card. I am not really sure what would be appropriate when we've only known each other for a few months and much of that she has been away. I could go the gift card route. Help is appreciated! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2012): hey there hun personally i wud say a gift card is a bit too impersonal and detached, i would go for a lovely big bunch of flowers delieverd to her door, with a message/ card saying that you wish you could be there on her birthday and you cant wait to see her soon! what girl could resist that! i certainly couldnt lol
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reader, jinxx  +, writes (11 July 2012):
 I think flowers and a card are your best bet.
You're right... lingerie would be too forward at this point, and it's too soon for jewelery.
Just get in contact with a florist where she lives and have them delivered. It's a nice, sweet gesture and when she comes back, you can take her out for dinner or something.
I must say, I think it's really cute that you're here asking this question!
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reader, Superdelilah  +, writes (10 July 2012):
What about a pretty silver bracelet. It wouldn't be too expensive yet is still thoughtful and personal. Or a beautiful coffee table book on something she likes? Or a picture frame with a fun picture of you both in it (too intense?). I'd avoid lingerie. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 July 2012): ok dont go crazy here...i would send her a card a nice card but nothing too personal, no i love you! second i would send her flowers but mybe spring flowers STAY AWAY FROM THE ROSES!!!! next year you can do the roses and i love you stuff!
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reader, I love TDG +, writes (10 July 2012):
 I wouldn't get anything too fancy. Maybe some cheap jewelry, or maybe... a teddy bear? Flowers? A cake? Teddy bear's a bit childish. But whatever.
Really liking the gift card idea. One to her favorite resturaunt or coffee shop?
And as for the lingerie, you guys have been dating long enough, and if you don't know her size, take a guess and go a size smaller ;).
But that's your call. I'd personally go with the gift card.
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