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writes:Hi everyone thanks for reading or even just glancing at this . I am hurting so much at minute I have just found out that my ex bf who I still have feeling for is having a baby with his new gf. Is there any steps that will help me forget and move on because it is making me physical sick thinking about it!!!! Please help !!! Thanks
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (7 January 2015):
 Get a copy of Tolstoy's "War and Peace".... start reading it... and don't stop until you are done....
IF you finish that..... get Dostoyevski's "Crime and Punishment" and read that - cover, to cover. If/when you complete those two books.... I predict that LOTS of time will have elapsed... enough so that - if someone asks you about you "ex-B/F" - you will say, "Who??????"
Good luck....
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reader, Pureflame  +, writes (7 January 2015):
I know how you feel, trust me.
I know it feels like everything around you has shattered. But trust me, its not. Its going to get better :)
I'm sorry, but the only thing you can do is take this as a closure. He has moved on and so must you.
Try not thinking about it and i know its difficult but you will have to find a way to be happy for you.
Focus more on yourself and keep yourself distracted. Time does heal everything. Give yourself some time and space away from him and keep yourself occupied.
I know its difficult, but maybe it's time you move on.
Good luck my dear.
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reader, KaileyLove  +, writes (7 January 2015):
 My best advice for you is to give it time. Time really heals all wounds, trust me on that. Don't linger on the past.
I've been in relationships before where I thought that I would never move on, but my little trick that really helps is to look forward and never look back. I keep my mind occupied with other things. Put time in a hobby, paint, learn guitar, go on vacation, those little things really help keep your mind clear.
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