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What should I say to get him to really understand?

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Question - (27 October 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 October 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my fiance is sneaking and talking to his ex behind my back. i've confronted him about it but he still does it anyways. what should i do to get him to understand how much this bothers me?

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A female reader, Ravenxx91 United Kingdom +, writes (28 October 2009):

Ravenxx91 agony auntTbh i would just sit him down and tell him how you are feeling. And ask him to take your feelings into consideration. If he cant do that, then I cant see the marriage lasting long x

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2009):

Personally, I'd see this as a major warning. Why would he suddenly be sneaking away and speaking to his ex? I think you need to sit down and ask him if he wants this relationship to continue, because this sounds like it's going to end otherwise. If you really wanted to make a statement, call off the engagment. If he's not totally committed to you, then don't marry him, because he will only hurt you.

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