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anonymous
writes:So me and bff have been friend for 12 years but recently she's been looking at me like slut cause i dont wear a purity ring and belive in sex when ur in love instead of marriage and though i plan to wait until i am truly in love and hopefully until im married. Her mother and her look at me like slut. I hate it. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, stephyjack  +, writes (26 June 2009):
you should never so something because you are guilted into doing it or because some else feels its the right thing to do. if your friend views you as a slut for not wearing a ring on your finger then you shouldn't be friends with such a judgemental person. if she make such a big deal about a little ring what about when you make bigger more important decisions in your life. a friend should be supportive and understanding and if she can not be that person and can't accept that it is your decision then you should re-evaluate your realtionship with her
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reader, Tbonex +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Just because you don't have a purity ring doesn't mean you're a slut. You know how you are and what you do. Tell them how they make you feel thinking that and stay tactful. You'll be fine.
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