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writes:I'm so confused! Me and my boyfriend of 1 and 1/2 months broke up on the 18th. I was really crushed and still am to this day. It was so unexpected ;( He told me he wasn't ready to be with me because he was hurt too much before. I told him I was different but I think actions speak louder than words. He told me that he will always love me and that we will be together again one day, when the time is right. (you see, he races motocross and is always up and about while I'm training for college soccer) so, we never really got to spend time with one another. Since day one, he was telling me how crazy he was for me and the way he made me feel was amazing. Anyways, I told him that I love him and ill be here and when he's ready ill prove to him that I'm worth the fight. He texts me like every other day. What does this mean? Does he still love me? Should I let go or hold on? He says he wants to see me next week when he gets back from a race in, but were just friends so its going to be weird. So how do I show him that I'm meant for him? What should I wear? What should I talk to him about? Should I even go? I'm sooo confused! I love this boy and I feel like its not ever but I don't know, what do you think?
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (26 June 2009):
One more thing. You said he races motocross. Maybe I'm wrong but usually they are what we call "bros" out here in California, and usually they're good for fun, but not relationships.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (26 June 2009):
You're allowing him to do as he pleases and letting him know that you're going to sit around and wait for him. If you want him back then act like you don't care one way or another. You were only together a month and a half, that's the honeymoon period. What you should do is cancel your meeting and reschedule. He has you wrapped around his finger. Tell him that you need to reschedule because "something came up." Don't answer all his texts...have that boy chasing after you and make him wonder. Some people don't agree with playing games, but you're young and you need to learn it one way or another.
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reader, Wreck +, writes (26 June 2009):
 Let go but still talk to him , I dont know what kind of situation you are in because I am not you but in a guys point of a view when he tells a girl that stuff the only reason "I" would say that is because I don't want to hurt the girl by telling her I dont want to be with you anymore so I find a nicer way to tell her... , but thats just my point of view ... If this guy really loves you he will realize later what he has lost and go back to you.. just keep it simple dont give your self up too much dont call him alot or text him every day .. text him every other day just to keep in touch like he does...
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