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female
age
30-35,
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writes:Hey there! I'd like to ask for some advice against unforgivingly stupid cowardice. I am 18 years old and I don't have any problems sozializing or talking to people. In contrary, I call myself strong in character and self-confident. But when it comes to girls I turn into a complete idiot. There is a good friend of mine who I want to get closer to for a while. She is neither lesbian, nor interested in a friendship with benefits - which I actually am. (Please don't judge me at this point, I know exactly what I want and what not.) She is still curious though. If she was a lesbian, she would be with me she said once. I was eager to make a move. One evening, she came over to my house for a couple of drinks. We laughed and joked around, maybe flirted a bit. Then we talked about tattoos and where she would like to have one. I just moved closer to her and showed her the spot. I touched her neck and slowly went down her spine. I whispered to her. She had goosebumps. I almost heard the air sizzling. She then turned around and looked at me ... AND RIGHT THERE was the part when I should kiss her. But I didn't. I just f*cking didn't. I laughed it off with a joke and that's it. What in the world happened. After she left I hit my head against the wall a couple of times and wrote this text. I need to get my shit together. But how? And is there another chance? I feel that I need to see her again. But I don't want to chase her away! Please help :(
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (23 May 2012):
 If she is not a lesbian and you know she isn't interested in being friends with benefits, then why are you trying?
Even if you do kiss her you know she does not want a casual relationship so where do you go from there? You don't want to end up leading her on or hurting her, have a really good think before you go anywhere with this.
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reader, Glacier  +, writes (23 May 2012):
Did she look at your lips? If so, then she was likely interested.
Next time, you could make some intimate moves like stroking her hair or kissing her on the side of her head and slowly down to her mouth.
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