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This is my first ever second base and now I am not sure how far she is wanting to go

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Question - (13 July 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 July 2007)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey,

My girlfriend and I are both 17 and we have been going out for about one month. Last night when we were making out on my bed she guided my hand to her breast.

This is my first ever second base and now I am not sure how far she is wanting to go, but judging from what she did, should I follow up next time by actually going under the shirt? Not quite sure what to do and I don't want to make her uncomfortable or hurt our relationship.

Thanks

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A female reader, YummyMummy United Kingdom +, writes (16 July 2007):

YummyMummy agony auntI agree with Lynst- try placing a hand on her stomach.

If you really are unsure how far things are going why not chat to her and ask her where she wants things to go. How far she's willing to go etc. And tell her what you want.

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A female reader, LynstHolin United States +, writes (14 July 2007):

Just put your hand a little under her shirt, on her tummy (maybe tickle her a little, not too much, you don't want to make her wet her pants), then look her in the eyes, smile, and ask, "May I?"

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