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writes:An ex passed an STD onto me last April and has recently told me he didn't get treated. Mainly because he knows that it makes men and women infertile and no-one can say he's got them pregnant. Obviously I'm not with him anymore and I have a duty to my sister's, but how can I send a warning out, without sounding like sour grapes and would women believe me anyway?I know he is still on the online dating site where I met him and he told me he'd had sex with 9 women!!I've have read the devastating effects Chlamydia can cause if left untreated!!Help me to do the right thing!
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reader, sancerre1963 +, writes (14 October 2009):
sancerre1963 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your response guys. I've already been on the 'you have to get this treated' bandwagon with him, but he isn't listening.
I know that it's down to women as well to take responsibilty for safe sex and not just the guys. These things happen and it's embarrassing to be going to your doctor or a clinic to get checked and the 2 week wait is a nightmare, but it's easily treated.
He has caught it from somebody, so may not have known, but he does now.
He claims he's sick of women claiming to be pregnant by him and while there are no symptoms for him, he doesn't need to do anything about it.
I notice a poster said it's against the law. Is that right?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2009): I'd start with his FB account, create a new account, and then freind all the women he knows... spread the word faster than he's spreading the desease. A billboard might be a good idea, near his place of work...
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (14 October 2009):
 OK...I don't know about Great Britain, but in a few states here across the pond the fact that he is knowing passing an STD to wone can be considered a felony.
What you need to do is to contact each and every one of them by phone, post or email. If they don't believe you, be prepared to send them a copy of your medical report.
As for the websites, its an ok Idea as well. And don't be too upset or think us guys will be offended, Pink Topaz. There are sites set up for exposing cheaters of both genders where we call them out and abuse them ad nauseum.
How do I know? I OWN IT!
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (13 October 2009):
 Put his name and picture and what you said here online. many women Google men before they go out with them for the first time,
Of course the normal thing to do is to sit hi down and explain to him that what he is doing is wrong and that if he is that dead set on not having kids he can either abstain, wear a condon or get sniped. if he's a complete idiot who won't listen to reason then post it only............who is he to play with a woman's fertility? what if she will want kids down the line and wont be able to cause of him?
what an ASS!
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (13 October 2009):
Let me get this right...he doesn't want to get treated so he can be infertile or make women infertile so he won't have children running around? What the hell? I hope I'm reading that correctly. I don't think you'll be able to find out who the women are to let him know, and yes, they could think you're the "crazy ex" out to get him.
The only thing I can think of is there's a website called dontdatehimgirl.com I think. Sorry guys...but there's a website that women can post about their ex or a guy they know that is bad news. It even lets you post his picture, screen names, name, etc.
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