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writes:I am just curious. This one is for the men. What do you like to see in women based on physical appearance on how they look? Reply to this Question
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reader, nigelfuxwell  +, writes (14 July 2007):
 Who cares what I like? Who cares what he likes? I can sit here and tell you my idea of the perfect physical woman. As soon as I finish telling you that, and another woman who looks totally different walks by, then I'll be attracted to her. Sexy is so much more than bust size. It's so much more than what you wear. Many times, I have found women sexy simply because of the way they walked into a room. It's all about confidence.
About 3 weeks ago, my company took place in a fashion show in Anaheim, and we supplied the evening wear. The models were the very picture of typical American Beauty. As they did their thing on stage, I heard two girls beside me talking trash, saying that you had to have a "perfect body" to wear these clothes. I asked "what's perfect?". They gave me the same old story, you know the supermodel look. Funny thing is, I thought these two girls were beautiful (and in fact they both had starred on reality shows on MTV) but they thought they were overweight. And according to the magazines, they are! But reality and magazines are two different things.
I took the two ladies into the dressing room and picked out two dresses for them, based on their skin color and hair. They had come dressed in hideous clothes that either hid their assets, or accentuated the things that needed to be less visible. When they changed into my clothes, they were VERY uncomfortable, and it took me 20 minutes to convince them to leave the dressing room. Upon leaving, one of the girls' boyfriends was THRILLED with what she was wearing. The other turned every head in the crowd. You could see them as their confidence grew, and at the end of the night, people thought they looked better than the models we had.
So it goes to show you... Confidence. Learn to love yourself, and see yourself for what you are, not what you're aren't. Understand and love the parts of you that are sexy, and accentuate that. Don't ever worry about what you think WE like. I'll put it this way - Men are easy to attract. No matter what specifics we may give you, there is going to be a huge percentage of people who find you drop dead sexy. My mom always says "There's somebody for everybody" and "Everybody is ugly to somebody". Don't try to please the masses. Please yourself first, and love yourself. Pretty soon, everyone is going to want to know what it is that makes you so damn special!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 July 2007): I personally like to see women dressed in skirts rather than jeans/trousers and showing a well turned heel atop a pair of high-ish heels.Not too big around the rear.Breast size is not that important, after all, who wants to look like Jordan? Just imagine the sweat underneath those things on a warm day! Pert little breasts and pointy-uppy nipples do it for me.White teeth, fresh breath, a nice smile and a sense of humour.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (13 July 2007):
 hey chicken i know this one was directed at the men but i want you to know that there is no particular type that is attractive to men! different men different types you know?? but wat i do know is that they love a confident woman who smiles brightly and enjoys life!! email me to chat more id love to talk to ya! dont worry about wat is attractive to men cos the truth is that you already are!! email me and well talk!!xxx
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reader, eddie +, writes (13 July 2007):
 This question can not be answered in a way that will give you any information. We're all different. What I liked (visually) at 18, I still like today at 44, but it would be inappropriate to chase. I have an appreciation of women my age that I never had until now. It's a maturity about them that only life and time can give you. They're might be more rounded physically etc. I like older ladies who are still vibrant and out going. Some men like slim, ft, black, white, long hair, short hair etc. There is no answer, just preference.
So, what I like should mean nothing to you since you're not going to be with me. It's not important. Many people have been passed over because they didn't fit into the mold of what society paints as the perfect picture. Work with what you've got. If you can find someone who likes your worst "flaw", he'll be thrilled with your best features.
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