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writes:what is wrong with my housemate!!! I officially can not stand her any longer! We got our place together but i swear she lives like i'm living in her house. She constantly talks to herself and you know when she is around or in a bad mood. she huffs and puffs, slams things and constantly slams doors in the morning. You can even hear her feet when she walks she walks in such a huff. She has been a pain to me and my boyfriend who is only around half the time because he works away but she seems to think he's here all the time. If he is here we are in my room or out. She mouthed of about stuff that she doesnt do herself and sometimes the things that she is whinging about are completely wrong or just something that i'm not doing because she wants it that way. Like me being in the shower when she wants it, is me not being considerate to her. She hardly ever mopped and I did it all the time so I stopped doing it and then after she does it she asks me if i'm going to do any cleaning because she doesnt want to let it go for another fortnight, then she doesnt touch it again for nearly three months!!!???? She didn't even want me parking in my own driveway because the car i had been given to drive wasn't mine. Not to mention she had had the driveway to herself for 6 months and now she would have to share it.I'm moving out soon which I am so thankful for and I don't want anything to do with her. I don't know if she is jealous or something, she never does anything or has any friends and I can't stand people that tell me to do stuff that they don't do themselves. Sometimes I think she talks out loud as some sort of attention thing.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Who knows what is wrong with her. As I see it, it really doesn't matter since you are about to move out. She could be jealous of not having a life, she could be a little delusional thinking she does everything in the house and so on...
She might be talking to herself cause she has no one else to talk to. It's all hard to say.
Best thing to do when EVER you have a "house-mate" is to have rules and set job descriptions. Sorta like a chore plan and set house rules.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): 1) You're moving out, so trying to understand why your roommate does what she does is redundant.
2) Your entire post was venting your frustrations. The only 'question' you had on there looked rhetorical.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): hey martini, if i was just ranting why would the question title be: what is wrong with my housemate???!!!! i've said how it is to show her actions.
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reader, lovelynightmare +, writes (20 February 2009):
 Sounds like she has an anger management problem and needs counseling. Also sounds like she is in love with needless authority over others.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009): Hahaha! You're just ranting. So since you're not actually seeking answers, I'll just nod at you. [nods] ^_~
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