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writes:What is worse - getting deleted or blocked from MSN? My ex deleted me from MSN because I was getting on her nerves but has not blocked me but I know we are still friends because we had an argument but forgave each other and she is giving me one last chance. She still has not added me back on MSN, should I give her some space then she will add me back? I need to know what is worse, being blocked or being deleted. Please help
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (27 October 2009):
 Being blocked of course is worst. blocking someone means I want no contact with this person, I don't want to see him online, I don't want him to see me and if he emails me it will just go into my junk box. If someone deleted you it might just be because they don't want to see you online either cause they are trying to move on or because they would rather you make the first contact because: 1.they don't want to be the aggressor/pursuer or 2. last few times they contacted you you were not very responsive and they felt rejected so.................they might be throwing the ball in your court. If you were getting on her nerves then give her some space and let her cool down and miss you first, if she forgave you that's good but still don't pounce on her. Go slowly, test the waters,how long has it been? a month? send her a happy Halloween msg to see if she responds.........a day or 2? give her another week or 2. She didn't push you out, she was was clearly projecting when she deleted you......there is something left unresolved but she wants it resolved otherwise she would have blocked you as well
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 October 2009):
If you're placing the value of a relationship over some sort of internet status, then you really need to look at the relationship. I think this is a case of time to move on. She's your ex, and in truth, this is exactly why exes shouldn't stay friends. You can't just be friends, you will always be like this because of the past. One will annoy the other, so the other will block on the internet. Not only would I give her space, I really wouldn't have much to do with her anymore and move on. There are others out there who you will get to know, but please don't waste time on the past, or over internet relationships that have no depth.
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