I'm shy and not sure how to work out if this could be more than a friendship.

A male age 26-29, *usic lover writes:

Hello I've recently met a guy at my workplace I'm gay and I'd like to know if he's just being friendly or maybe likes me or just want to be friends because a few days ago we walked together and a girl approached me and greeted me and not him also, and he jokingly asked her why she greeted me only and not him also she didn't reply and was more interested in talking to me about an achievement I had at work, so he went inside the locker room. After we finished our conversation I returned to the locker room and this guy asked me if I liked this girl or if this girl likes me but he asked it in such a serious manner we were alone in the locker room and we chat for a few minutes but while he's talking to me he's constantly looking at me it's like he can't look away I was smiling and blushing so I asked for his number and we chat online where he asked me if there's anyone that I liked at work I said no cause all guys working in my department are all straight he then said in his department there's gay guys which surprised me because assuming he's straight how would he know that there's gay guys in his department and he doesn't interact much with the people at his department I'm very shy though. Also in the morning he would greet me but later during the day he would always acknowledge me eg. Say hey not that I'm complaining. I'd just really like to know could it maybe be just a friendship or more.

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