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What is the best lubricant to use, specifically for anal?

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Question - (20 July 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 July 2011)
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Does anyone have any tried and true recommendations for a personal lubricant that stays slippery longer other than K-Y (in the United States)?

My partner and I really do not like that it gets sticky so quickly, and we have to re-lube so often, and then it leaves such a dry "cakey" residue. This is really specifically for anal.

This is fairly new to us, needing a lubricant, and we have only purchased the generic K-Y...the ingredients were the same so I didn't think buying the name brand would make any difference?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2011):

I am the OP, and thanks for the responses so far. I appreciate it. I am writing these names down and see if I can find them locally, if not, I can probably order off the net I imagine. I will try anything to find something we both like.

We have not been in a sex store together, and we haven't used any sex toys...yet lol.

The lubricant I bought was in a tube and it wasn't a liquid, but I have seen what you are are talking about Ampersand. The stuff I have is more like vasaline in immediate consistency, but as I said, turns sticky and gets cakey after a few minutes.

I did not think of adding some water to it because when we were trying to wash it off, it was slippery again...thanks for that idea!!!

I am relaxed, and we have a tried a few positions, but I noticed no matter how we do it, the minute that stuff starts to dry up, it becomes uncomfortable and I will no longer continue.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (21 July 2011):

The Realist agony auntIf you have it in the states try astroglide. It works really well and I done anal with my gf using it. Also just to mention, relaxation is just as important as lube inorder for anal to go well.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (20 July 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou would need crude oil and a ball peen hammer to get me to try anal sex?

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A female reader, Ce-Ce United States +, writes (20 July 2011):

Ce-Ce agony auntYou can try a lube called Platinum. Go to a sex store and ask the Clerk. The lubricants in the regular stores are sticky and don't work. The ones in the sex stores are amazing.

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