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writes: What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its nice to here from me...yada yada. She tells me to call her before I come up. I get a phone call from her a week and half later. I tell her that im coming up next weekend. She tells me that she gave our cat to someone. She goes into details about a dude she has been seeing at work and says she wont be around this weekend because she is going camping with her boyfriend.Why do I need to know that??? lol. Why would you tell me that?? Is she nuts? I didnt contact her, I text her two weeks later and said "whats up?" she responded..."do you need something?"I dont get it. We went out for 5 years and have been apart for 7 months now. Keep in mind too that SHE asked one of my friends "So I hear he's got a Girlfriend now?" that's how it began.I don't!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (3 October 2007):
She just found a new boyfriend and wanted to find out how you were doing. She's now gloating.
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 October 2007):
Personally I would tell her, "you have a boyfriend, thank you for the offer to hang out sometime, but I will have to decline."
It sounds as if she is wanting to rub in her moving on. It's not right for her to do that, and her behavior in doing so is inappropriate.
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