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writes:Hi, before, I said about me being mean to a guy that used to be in my class, but I was also wondering about this guy through out all these years. He's been nice but then in year 5 and 6 he started being mean and ignored me and told me to get lost. But then he used to look at me a lot, and I used to pretend that I hated it when he did this. In the last 2 years in year 7 and 8 i've seen him sometimes on the way to school and he smiles and looks at me. Does it mean anything? He's really confusing me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): based completely on the fact that i did the same thing with my first crush in grade 8 - i can only assunme by the details you have provided he likes you and is really shy around you - if he fits the description of omeone who hangs around with other people who arent the popular flirty types and if he likes to concentrate on studies or work then he is just shy - if u like him then try to help him get to know u and be comfortable around you
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reader, HeartBreakED  +, writes (3 October 2007):
 I remember when I was a little youngster, there was a girl who say behind me in class who would always flick the back of my neck and call me names. It used to upset and confuse me so much. My mom always told me that she had a crush on me and that's why she did those things. I didn't really understand it then but now I kind of do. Perhaps this young lad of yours is just striving for attention from you. Some people feel that even negative attention is better than no attention at all. Also, he may be acting macho in public to impress his friends and look cool. Maybe you should ask him to take a walk with you and you could talk to him about it when he is away from peer pressure to be a "big tough man". I don't know though. Just a thought.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): If you like him maybe you should try being nice to him instead of pretending to be mean. See if he is nice in return.If he isnt then maybe he just doesnt like you.
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