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female
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anonymous
writes:Okay so I've been seeing this guy for about 3 months now we get along well AND we understand each other perfectly were even compatible zodiac sign wise ( hes a scorpio AND I'm a Pisces ) and everything is perfect except for the fact that every once in awhile he likes to disappear for a couple of days or a week.Like he wont call or text me and it makes me kind of sad / worried because i cant get in contact with him . Usually I can put up with it but now we haven't talk for 2 weeks AND it bothers me because the last thing he said to me was he has so much to tell me but it's not the right time AND it's nothing bad. I just want to say it in person. So now I'm kind of confused to why he won't call me AND I'm pretty sure I didn't do anything wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): Guys do this when they are spending time with other girls. I'm guessing you are not in a committed relationship with him and how you feel about him is not a mutual thing.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Sounds a little odd. What does he do (work) that makes it impossible to get in contact like that?
Does he explain when he gets back/call back where he's been and what's up?
Sounds to me that you are a convenient "lay-over"... FWB, just without the really being friends..
I hope the two of you get to talk face to face and clear this up.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Three months isn't long at all and given the fact that he disappears or days or weeks at a time, I would definitely not call this a relationship.
Keep talking to him if you like, but consider yourself single and free to talk to others. With that in mind, I wouldn't mention his absences and instead treat them as though I didn't even notice them. Keep him at a formal distance.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2012): This is not a healthy relationship or loving one, the friendship aspect is not all that either as No Healthy, Loving Adult relationship has room for secrecy.
Honest Men do not Hide, Omit, Conceal facts, let alone his whereabouts.
I see games and when a young man does that- its highly BS going on. Way to invite in Drama and mistrust Hero.
I say its time to move on.
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reader, mizz.butterflies +, writes (25 January 2012):
 dont do anything. wait until he contacts you. then appear aloof. be like "oh heeyyy how have you been"...and if he wants to talk about something, be like "I cant see you tommorow. I have (..).Matter of fact my whole week's schedule looks extremely busy. Could you call me next week?".... He will be like WHAAT? I HAVENT CONTACTED HER IN 2 WEEKS AND SHE DOESNT MIND??? WHAT IS GOING ON? give him a taste of his own medicine. i understand this is hard to do, cause uve missed him but its the ONLY WAY he'll start taking u seriously.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (25 January 2012):
 My first husband was a scorpio and I'm Pisces. DO NOT go by that sweetie... it's a crock.
3 months is NOT a long time...
and every once in a while in the first three months he disappears for days or longer and it's still perfect????
3 months is 12 weeks.
in the last 12 weeks he's been silent on you for how long in addtion tot he last two weeks????
YOU didn't do anything wrong but there is NO relationship here....
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