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writes:Okay so I'm in a lovely relationship with a guy who has only had a two week relationship prior to me. However, although the physical side is good I feel unfulfilled by it. Maybe because with my Ex we had a very exciting sex life and tried lots of things. He holds a rather childish view of sex as in he find the idea of tongues "gross" or so he says and pulls away whenever I try, he never goes down on me and he never wants to try anything new. How do i try and get him to be more adventurous without scaring him or making him feel pressured?
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 July 2012):
 Here's an idea that worked on me. "honey, I was readying an article in Cosmo(or any other mag.) that said if you were to go down on me I would have a screaming good orgasm, Do you thing you could try that out on me some time?" That way it's not you that thought it up and therefore you're not resposible if it doesn't work out.
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo +, writes (17 July 2012):
 You need to sit and talk with him about this, talk about things both of you would like to try and talk about the reasons why it is important to you to try these things and how it could be good for the two of you.
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