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writes: Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. He told me he cheated on me for almost 2 months, so I forgave him and we go back out. I'm happy with him but when we argue it's horrible and I can't stand him and it's a lot that we argue.Well I slept with this guy twice and I couldn't resist. He is so sexy and I liked him for a while. Well the point is my boyfriend is coming to my school and he is going to be in the same classroom as the boy I slept with and I'm afraid that he will say something to my boyfriend.I have a feeling I am going to sleep with this boy again. I can't help it. What should i do? I can ask the guy not to say anything and if he does I can just deny it but I dont know. HELP.
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reader, Hopeful +, writes (22 March 2006):
If you are really worried about this, I think you should be honest and tell your boyfriend.
Not that he will be happy about it, but it will sound 100 times worse if he is told by someone else.
I think though, also, from what you say about your relationship with him, perhaps you consider breaking up and moving on. It doesn't sound like a very happy relationship.
However, that is no excuse for cheating and now that you have done that I think its time you faced what you did.
Perhaps it is time for the relationship between you and your boyfriend to end, especially if you are still attracted to this new guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2006): im going to cheat on my bf again what should i do? well maybe you could dump your boyfriend admit to what you did and then you can sleep with the other guy guilt free.simple
You cant both have your cake and eat it to it just doesnt work like that, if you continue on with this it will eventually come out and its going to be nasty, do the right thing and tell your boyfriend.
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