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writes: Hi there, I'm 19 and I've just been dumped by my first serious boyfriend and I am so confused because I just don't know how to deal with it. He said he wanted to be single because he couldn't handle the emotions. He has had past relationships and has been dumped. When we first met he was an exciting, bubbly person and told me what every girl wants to hear and on valentines day he made so much effort and everything was perfect then over the course of two weeks he changed and told me the pressure was too much - being my first boyfriend and saying that I seemed too attached to him. He said he didn't want for it to carry on for longer because the pain would be worse. He said he couldn't handle being in a relationship again. I love him and I can't stand being without him but I need to accept it's over. How can I get over it? It was just so sudden and he kept changing his mind. I don't want to hear things like "maybe he cheated" I'm not looking for why it went wrong I just need to get over it as hearing what he may have done would destroy me. Reply to this Question
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reader, lisa_01  +, writes (22 March 2006):
 sadly we cant just get over relationships over nite but some ideas to help you with getting over him would be maybe take up some hobbies, maybe join a gym if you havent already,surrounding yourself with friends and family is also good because you have someone to talk to about your feelings, i always find a girls day out to be really up lifting, go shopping,dress up, catch a movie, go out to eat,maybe later on invite some friends over for a drink and DVD nite or if your old enough maybe go out to a club or something.
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