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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm confused-when the honeymoon phase of a relationship ends, and the passion and sex dies down a little, what happens to those lustful feelings? Do they get directed towards other people? It worries me! Because I'd want to keep those feelings within my relationship, not lose them, or have them directed towards other people :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2012): This perhaps describes how to make it happen all over again. It seems to have some good tips?
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tunnel-vision-positive-thinking---used-to.html
Because it sounds like you are in the doldrums in this area. So maybe it could help?
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female
reader, Abella  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 this is an article on Self Confience from Code Warrior is also worth reading. I think it is an excellent article from Dear Cupid:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-confidence-and-how-do-i-get.html
regards
Abella
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (22 January 2012):
If those lustful feelings are directed to other people then that is the character of the person that`s directing them, not a phase of the relationship. It means you are with an unfaithful partner.
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
Actually you get better after the initial passion. You learn more empathy and more consideration for the other party. You deepen the intimacy if the relationship is already on a firm strong foundation of good respect and love and the intimacy becomes deeper and stronger.
You just need to work at it.
Talking
respecting
listening
caring
showing empathy.
Trust me, real life is far more beautiful than just the honeymoon stage.
My best wishes to you for yor life ahead
regards
Abella
By the way I also refer to the honeymoon stage as referring to something entirely different (but that does not apply to you as you are in a loving relationship, not an abusive one)
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