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writes: ive been with my boyfriend for over 2 years now and we're having some trouble, we aren't having sex much at all anymore, is there anything you can recommend to get things back to normal? i have lingerie and massage oil but they dont help as much as we need. please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2007): This happens to all couples at one point or another, I have been through this myself too so I know how frustrating it is.
I found that really shaking things up and pushing the boundries helped us get really interested in sex again.
I spoke to my husband about how I was feeling and how I really wanted to get the closeness back into our sexual life again. So I initiated conversations about what really turned my huisband on and asked him if there was anything that he really wanted to try and was a bit shy of asking. And also I told him the things that I wanted to try. After a few discussions and after looking into different techniques we tried everything that we had been thinking about. As a result we feel like the spark has been put back into our sex life and we feel alot closer.
And also believe it or not the only way to get the labido back up is to increase the amount of sex your having!, I know it sounds stupid but the labido drops and gets used to alot less sex, so the only way to push it back up is to have more sex, and even when your not both feeling like it.
Ok hope I have helped, get back to me if you need more advice.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 That happens to alot of couples, so you are not alone. Have you two ever watched porn together? That helps too! Then there is also herbs that you can take to get his and your libido on fire again. You should research this for yourself...yohimbi and (don't laugh) Horny goat weed!! There's others on the market...but i can't remember the names of them!! (one of those helps a guy out with his testoserone..aiding in him getting horny)
well i hope that this has helped you somewhat in your relationship!!!
love and hugs
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