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writes:i messaged my ex this 'do you like the way you and me turned out in the end?' (which basically meant me and her finishing and we hardly ever speak now)to which she said 'no do you?' I then responded 'no,i feel like a fool asking you this now i just wanted to know how you felt' she then replied 'y' i wasnt sure if she meant y did i feel stupid or y did i want to know how she felt. i thought her reply was a little short and to the point so instead of probing her and asking to which subject was she asking 'y' i kept my answer short and too the point-'i don't know' Then she did not reply. And i havent heard from her since. What does this mean? Thanks guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): this is not a conversation you have via text messages., As we all know they can be misconstrued. Call he and talk in person. Best of luck!
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reader, ManAfterChrist  +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Well if you were discontent with it, then you should try to remedy that. Obviously she wasn't happy with the outcome either. Her reply was short because it's a little awkward talking to an ex. Your answer wasn't "short and to the point" it was just a meaningless answer.
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reader, LLindy87 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 well you should have asked what she was saying "Y" to. By saying 'I dont know' sort of ended the convo, don't you think?
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reader, babigurl0497 +, writes (26 July 2010):
 Well, I think you should've been more specific, you should've asked her what she meant by "y" and then she would've replied and you two would probably atleast be friends again, I think you should text her back and be friendly, just say "hey" than see if she texts back and if she does just talk to her, ask her questions, ask her how her day has been, ask her anything!!!!!!!!!
HOPE THIS HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2010): I'd guess she meant 'y' to you wanting to know how she felt. Sounds to me like she has little interest in the subject at all.
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