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writes:What does it mean when a lady touches you on your hand, shoulder, arm, body and strokes your hair, smiling at you, and tries to be close body contact towards you as well constantly looks at you? just wondering, because i encountered this before and always thought about what it always meant. just to let you know i am straight and those ladies who had touched me might be bisexual or lesbian due to on how they act.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Hi there,
Generally, those are the signs of flirting. However, it's hard to tell when it's girl-to-girl, because some girls are just really affectionate with their girlfriends and mean nothing sexual of it. I know me and my girlfriends used to peck each other and grab butts and be close, but it was all in good fun and just friendly.
Let your friends know that you're straight (without accusing them of being bisexual or lesbians. A simple "isn't that guy hot? Man, I love guys." will do. They should get the idea.
If anybody goes past any personal boundaries that you have, just let them know "I know you're just trying to be friendly, but that makes me a little uncomfortable".
Alright, sweetness. Good luck!
xxIndia
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reader, nologo  +, writes (29 June 2007):
 This behavior means she is interested.
However, such interest is not serious.
You claim here that you are straight, but "encountered this before and always thought about what it always meant".
My advice to you is that you should have a closer look at yourself, because you may provoke such actions somehow.
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