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writes:Lately I've been trying to get Over my ex...we went out a year. Three weeks later she had a new bf. Everyone says it's a rebound etc.Today I was talking to a mutual friend who has been hanging around with my ex a lot (My friends and ex live close) and the mutual friend told me that my ex doesn't mention her new bf, but has been asking when I'm next in town ( i live in a different town from my mates and I go and visit them some times).I'm confused :SThanks.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 well known fact: rebound relationships are almost bound to fail, since the one who has just left a relationship is still in shock.
But asking about you?
Classic signs that you are being missed. The rebound relationship is faltering if not on the skids. She knows the less said about Mr Rebound the better. She misses you. And She wants to see you again.
If you want to see her again, then i think you will find you may be in luck.
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reader, Drew21  +, writes (24 March 2011):
 ...eh, when a relationship ends, especially one that's gone on for a year or more, things are always weird and confusing.
Her asking your friend when you'll be in town next could mean any number of things: She may actually be having regrets about breaking up, but she could also just be wanting to know when you'll be around so that she can avoid you.
In my experience the best thing to do after a break-up is to just stay way from her and try to move on. It'll hurt for a while, but eventually that hurt will fade.
Try to ignore her. If anyone brings her up, just say you don't want to talk about or hear about her.
Make her come crawling back to you, if she really does regret losing you.
I was in similar situations, and have seen it go both ways. One chick really did not want anything more to do with me.
The other actually DID come crawling back.
I would count on her being done with you. Don't get your hopes up, because women can be cold, my friend.
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