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Too scared to have sex because of my penis size!

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Question - (24 March 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, *ink apples writes:

I'm 17 and my penis is only 3inches long

I am sooo scared to have sexual relations because of my size

Please I need tips and advice what to do

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2011):

You're only 17. You don't stop growing until you're 21. Even at that, there are a boat load of options now a days. But all these are good advice.

My wife gets so aroused during foreplay, that after I actually penetrate her, she lasts...maybe 3 min. IF THAT! lol

Then we go again, and it's all good, but you get my point. Don't worry so much about that. Worry about finding a good woman who loves you, and that won't be a problem.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (24 March 2011):

chigirl agony auntThis is what you do.

You wait until you find a nice woman who you love, and who loves you back. Be in a relationship with her until both your and her feel ready to take it to the next step. That probably means wait until you are out of your teenage years.

Talk to her about your insecurities when it comes to sex. Communicate.

In the end, there is nothing you can do about the way you are, you just have to jump into it and see how it goes. With the right girl, and the right dedication, your sex life will be normal and not only that, it can also be amazingly great.

You just got to wait for that right girl that you match with.

Being good in bed is not about penis size. It's about how you treat your partner, and how much you give in bed. If you give more than you take, your partner will always be happy to give back.

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A female reader, Nime United States +, writes (24 March 2011):

Nime agony auntHi link, don't worry about your penis size. My man is a little below average and usually can't last more than a minute. He sometimes tells me this must be a problem for me but I have no idea what he's talking about. Between all the kissing and oral sex he gives me, hand stimulation, compliments and massages I'm fully satisfied. As far as I'm concerned there's no problem and I wouldn't leave him for anything. You may find a girl who will not appreciate you for what you have, but if that happens just move on and let her find someone who does. Everybody likes something different. There are plenty of girls out there who would have no problem with your size, especially if you are a generous lover (as a guy of ANY size should be). Good luck and never call what you have a problem or abnormal, you've only got one body, your penis is not going to change, and you need to love what you have.

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A male reader, Drew21 Canada +, writes (24 March 2011):

Drew21 agony auntEh, as the old saying goes: "it's not what you have, it's how you use it."

It's important to know that there's more to women and sex then just "sticking the penis in"... Learn more about foreplay.. The key to a guy being successful at sex is that you have to make that girl WANT you inside of her..

Also, remember there are more ways to get a girl to climax then just straight intercourse. Look into oral sex, as well as what you can do with your hands for her..

Trust me, as long as you can get the girl off, that's all she's gonna care about..

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