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*ellybeans20009
writes:I don't ever want to be that girl who is not wanted around. I was dancing with this one guy at a club and it was a pretty crazy night so yes I was drunk but coherent. Everything was all right and then I notice him looking up and away. It seemed to me as if he just wasn't interested in dancing or he was a little freaked out that this drunk girl was partying it up so hard in front of him, so I immediately just went back to my girl friends after the song was done. No bye, nothing. I don't really understand what this means, but it would help a lot if anybody can back my guess up. I'm a little curious and would like more information on this so in the future I know when to cut it off earlier than at the end of the song, maybe right when I know he isn't into it. I get drunk to have fun and live out my youth. Unfortunately, I do know that it turns guys off to see a drunk girl. If it turns guys off then sorry they caught me at a bad time, but it doesn't define who I am. It'd be good to get a heads up on this one so then I don't have to stand there and be judged.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 I don't think it really means a whole lot. He was probably observing his surroundings since I know from experience alot of bad things can happen really fast in the bar so its good to know whats going on. Also he probably doesn't want to stare at you the whole time and creep you out. Don't forget all the funny stuff you see when you take a look around the bar.
I look around constantly and its not because I'm not into the girl that I am with its just because I like to see whats going on. Or he may not really be a dancer and was really nervous as to what you were thinking about him. Thats why if you like him then meet him outside of that whole scene so that you two can just be yourselves.
Hope this helps clear your head.
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reader, Goodguy84 +, writes (13 April 2010):
No drunk girls are not fun to dance with, especially if they are sloshed. If you were coherent then that's ok.He probably didn't think you were dancing very well in his mind. So he was looking for someone else to dance with. If he liked your dancing, he would've been looking at you and touching you. Other thing is that you weren't what he was looking for, maybe not pretty enough in his mind. So yeah walking away was the best thing.I've danced with a couple of girls that didn't have it in them and I did not like it. Even some pretty girls can't dance, and that is a big turnoff.
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