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writes: About 6 months ago I started talking to this guy from my home town. He goes to college 3 hours away from me.Despite the distance between our schools over the summer we went on a few dates. We went to the movies once and he came over a handful of times to watch a movie and even help with homework. During his Fall break we even went to some haunted graveyard at lake compounce. We both had a lot of fun together and clearly enjoyed each others company. He even played a game and won me a stuffed dog on the first try! He claimed that I was his good luck charm, so he stopped playing because he didn't want to run out of luck.When I asked him what his plans were for New Years he had quite a few options. However, I was invited to his cousins house for a party and told him about it. He said that maybe he would stop by, but he ended up staying the whole time.Throughout the night I sorta kept my distance but as it got later we slowly made conversation and it felt just like old times! We ended up cuddling together and hooking up. I didn't do anything to please him and we did not have sex because I'm not like that!When he goes away to school I feel as if I don't want to bother him because I know he is a hard worker and so am I. So I keep telling myself to wait for him to text me but I usually give in and text him first and we usually make plans to hang out.However, ever since I developed a stronger crush for him the more it is I hold back. I'm sure if I didn't like him as much as I do now I would have texted him by now to see how he is doing.Now he is studying abroad in Italy. Before he left I told him to text me if he wanted to get together and he never did. I wished him a safe trip and we left off at that. I have not heard from him however I do recall back in the summer kissing him bye before he went back to school and he mentioned to me that "I was making it hard for him to leave and that he didn't want to go back to school." There were a bunch of other so called "pick up lines" he used that were so original and I know he meant them. They really got to me!I feel as if I know he is having one hell of a time in Italy and I'm sure there are many other Italian hotties out there.. besides myself ;) ha but anyways I would love to hear from him and It has been a little over 2 months now. Should I continue to wait around? For some reason I am stuck on him and noone else could fill this empty void inside of me :(
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reader, Phillina  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 It sounds like this guy's feelings for you were genuine so maybe there is a good excuse to why he has not contacted you yet.If its possible for you to make contact with him,then do try!And if you do,then ask him why he has not contacted you.talk to him about how you feel. If you fail to contact him- two months IS a very long time and maybe you should move on with your life and try forgetting about him.If he had true feelings for you,surely he would have contacted you by now? In the end the choice is yours and remeber that you don't have to be too shy to ask him how he feels about you because you can't lose him any more than it seems you already have?good luck and believe me-time heals all wounds.
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