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What does it mean when she says this?

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Question - (24 December 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ulex writes:

what does it mean when a women you like says this to one of your friends?

", he is a lovely lad but im not sure if i like him in that way but i dont really know,"

Does that mean she only wants to be friends?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (28 December 2009):

i think it means she likes your looks but not sure if the personality would be her type.She is UNDECIDED.

The point is not to worry about what she thinks.It's up to you if you want to play the game or not.What ever you do do not try to impress a girl it only backfires.Be the prize and see the girls come to you.

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A male reader, Julex United Kingdom +, writes (25 December 2009):

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And she's not really like most other women i've met, She's not manipulative at all, We went to the cinema i payed for the tickets, i got home that night and found she had put the money for her ticket in my pocket, She hasnt cancelled our dates yet either, which is like 27th a sports game, 28th going for a walk, then nothing until after new year cause we both have other plans, she told me shes still recovering from a past relationship and just wants to take things slow, She bought me a pretty expensive present for christmas and luckily i bought her the same sort of price, either shes the best game player you will ever find in a women or shes genuine and really just wants to wait instead of acting on impulse, shes the type of girl that does charity work...

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A male reader, Julex United Kingdom +, writes (25 December 2009):

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Thanks for your answers so far but a female's opinion would be great to balance out the testosterome :)

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 December 2009):

It means she's still unsure how she feels. Which means you can either continue to go with her and try hard to win her over, or you can back away now and tell her it's not meant to be.

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A male reader, Advice_man United States +, writes (24 December 2009):

Advice_man agony auntI'll translate that for you in the woman's mind: "I only like him as a friend, not as a boyfriend but I'll play a little confused so he gets a little hope that I might be slightly interested and he keeps pursuing me because I like the attention and it's a good confidence boost, plus if I ever get really lonely and desparate I might change my mind so I want him to be around. This way I cannot be accused as a "tease" nor that I am misleading him, and at the same time I get the attention i need!" It was simple but you are only 18, it takes some years to learn to interpret these kind of messages on your own. Regards!

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