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*pendy
writes:When he gets a phone call he goes out of the room... even though I can hear that it's his friend's voice, a male's voice... he looks at me to see if I am listening and then goes out of the room.. What is up with that? I don't question him about anything.. I tried looking through his phone cos I saw 3 missed calls and I wanted to see who they were from (I know it is wrong but I can't help it, I'm am a girl) and he had a security code on it? What is going on? He's so protective of his phone it's always in his pocket or in his hand..! What is going on here? please answer!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2009): He's up to something. My own personal experience with my ex who i was with for eight years. He has taught me to never let my guard down and you should not let yours down. Go to his cell account online, get his passcode or register him online. Girl, you do what you have to and get that number and call to find out who that person is he is keeping such a secret!!
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 I agree with all the ladies in this thread!
Also, there is some site you can go to and pay like $70 or somthing and its a service that tap's into all his communication including SMS, conversations everything!!! Can't remember the name of it but try googling it. ill ask my sister she's used it before.
But when you use it remember its a privacy issue, and you will hear see things you might not want to, in other words probably boy talk! and do you really want to be that type of GF spying on him, its a decision you will need to make.
I'll reply with the link soon.
Cheers.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (13 January 2009):
 Well said most the time when a guy keeps his phone with him all the time and gets secretive about his conversations on it there is something going on maybe not another woman but could also be he and his friends are up to no good . I would ask him what is going on and why is he like this Let him know it makes you feel bad and think something is going wrong give him a chance to fix it. And if you see he isnt wanting to fix it then let him know your not willing to continue letting him make you feel uneasy about his calls..................
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): Spendy, this is your bf we are talking about...right? Someone you are in a physical and edeeply emotional relationship with? If so, then either he's just a super, overly ' private' person and doesn't trust you (or anyone) or he's got something to hide. So it's really hard to say what's up. You guys should be talking about this. If a couple is dating, all walls should come down so the the relationship can thrive honestly and openly, And with that type of behavior/actions, the trust is continually being built up, in the relationship. The ways he's acting has you shaken and wondering..this is not good. Get talking to him and ask for his openess..his trust and his honesty. Do it today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): Well... this is me but i think hes cheating..!
You should aleast Maybe TRY and talk to him about it. Say your concerned or that your worried about your realtionship.So ask him why he walks out of the room.
It just might work well im only 13 so i dont know that much lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): he's hiding something, ask him straight out why is he so private about his friendships/ phone calls? ask him if he does not trust you or if he would feel hurt if you did the same to him.
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