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writes:This probably sounds rediculous, but what exactly does it mean when a girl gives you her phone number and asks for your's ... completely out of the blue? And, if she was perhaps interested in me, will she forget it because I was unable to give her mine? I ran into a girl from one of my classes. It's a small post-grad class with a lot of discussion, and the impression I got of her was of a caring, gregarious, fun lass, but I'm pretty much the opposite, socially inept would be an understatement, with physical and psychological issues that make me cautious when I come across the rare opportunity to even think about forming a relationship with someone. She is different in that, with most people I get a sense of them being uncomfortable around me, but I never really have that feeling from her, and she makes me smile.I didn't mean not to give her my phone number, and I told her why - my phone is, at the moment in another country, and I'm useless and can't remember the number.Is it possible I could have a chance of at least making a friend here? And have I blown it by being a forgetful twit? Yours DSH Reply to this Question
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reader, Jamer70  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 Nah you havent
You gave her a real reason for not having your number.
Have you got an e-mail how about you give her that instead. Or even try and get a cheap phone, but i dont know how it works down under.
If she makes you smile how about just asking her out instead she made the first move which shows shes interested. Ask her to the movies, a dinner/lunch.
Have a go i think she likes you
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reader, ilikenight  +, writes (7 June 2007):
 No, you haven't blown it. I like guys that are really shy & i guess weird is the word for it. Some of my boyfriends though it was a joke when I asked them for their #. But it isn't, so don't be discouraged. And if you like her, find a way to show her/ maybe try smiling at her when she looks your way. Apologise again for not giving her your # so she knows you care & weren't lieing about that.
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reader, i might be a girl but i can help +, writes (7 June 2007):
 aww hun its ok. it means she liked you by the way or maybe sh wants to meet up to get to know you better rather than in class as people will will want to know whether you guys are going out(nosey lot ant they) but don't worry if another girl comes along and asks for your number don't worry give it out there could be a chance of a relationship forming in a couple way or a friendship. good luck xx
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