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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:What does it mean if a married man sends me a early Christmas present and it is a piece of jewellery? It is a beautiful necklace(not gold) but it is an antique that was his grandmothers. He has never expressed feelings for me but does text me and call me. It is just friendly but it is daily communication. Could this just friendly or is this a 100% interest in me? I am not sure if he is scared to tell me his feelings since he is married or if he just wanted me to have it. I know I should return it but he means a lot to me and I want to keep it to remember him as I only see him about once every 2 years at a mutual friends party.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): He wants you "to have it" alright. This guy just wants to get into your pants. Stop, turn around, and RUN!!!!!!!!! You'll be glad if you do (run, that is).
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Amen to Denise. A man - married or not - does not give a woman a special, antique necklace just because. Okay, maybe if they're related. You're not related. This is completely inappropriate.
Do not get involved with him at all. Return it, and find a way to get over any feelings you might have for him. He is married and that is a huge mess waiting to happen. Don't hesitate. Don't get between a guy and his wife. Skip the dramafest. Good luck!
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (29 November 2010):
 Whatever his intentions are, the fact is he is married and this is WAY over the top as a gift to you - not that he should be sending you ANY gifts whatsoever, in fact.
It would be much more appropriate to give the necklace to his wife, or daughters.
No, return it, and have no more to do with him - even if it has only been two years since you last saw him. As for him meaning a lot to you - forget it. He's off limits!
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