What does "I like it when you are strong" mean?

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Question - (28 November 2011)

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A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone this is my question what do you think my boyfriend of 8 month meant by this he said to me last night when we were talking he likes it when I'm strong what can he mean by this thank you

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (29 November 2011):

well then for sure you need to ask him what he means

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011):

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Hi we were talking face to face cos we hadn't been getting on we were trying to get sorted

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 November 2011):

well were you in the gym lifting weights? were you moving furniture?

or was he perhaps referring to emotional strength?

I think you needed to ask him "what do you mean by that?" of course now the moment is gone and you have to go back and preface it with:

"you know the other day when you said you like it when I'm strong, what exactly did you mean by that?"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2011):

It depends on the situation you were talking about perhaps he means you are strong emotionally and likes that about you, or perhaps he has had a girlfriend who was needy and he likes your strength or character to be independent, or you were lifting something heavy and he likes strong girls! : ) only joking obviously about the last one!

I can only see it as a compliment but how he meant it is hard to decipher as what you were talking about leading up to him saying it would make a difference. You could just ask what he means and say "so the other night you said I was strong, but I was wondering what that meant?" he shouldn't mind! : )

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A female reader, confusedfemale92 +, writes (28 November 2011):

What were you two talking about when he said it? Maybe he means your typically a strong person emotionally and thats a quality he likes in women.

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A female reader, theaboo +, writes (28 November 2011):

background info on this, please? what were you talking about when he said it? texting or on the phone?

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