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writes: I wanted to know what does it mean when my husband told me that another woman respected and knows that he was married? Plese help me i've been thinking about it but unsure. Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2007): ummm... during that time my husband was always over at the neighbor house and i the other women that he was taling about lives there but when i asked him why do he go there so much he say that he go over there to hang out with her dad i see that he do go hang out with her dad during the day but when night fall he hang out with her and other people i be hearing them laugh and stuff and this one time he wash and wax her car for her i mean he shoulding be doing because he is married.also this one day it was around 10 pm and i told him to come back home from the neighbor house and he said no im handeling some bussiness and i was like what bussiness he was like dont worry about it.its my bussiness and he got really mad and went back over there...help me plzzzz i dont understand
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reader, eddie +, writes (7 October 2007):
You didn't really give much information. It depends on the context or scenario. What it might mean is when she found out he was unavailable, she didn't force the issue she liked him and stopped trying to come on to him.
It could also be a defense by your husband, justifying why he wasn't' concerned about being in the company of a woman who fancied him. If she was being very suggestive, and he stayed around to absorb her attention, it makes him look like he was flirting. If she backed off when she saw he was married then he can claim he didn't' feel threatened and saw no reason to tell her to leave him alone.
I say this because it's a useless comment unless it is tied to an action on the part of the other woman. What happened to lead you to ask this question?
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reader, kenny +, writes (7 October 2007):
you have got to question him to find out what excactly was meant by this. By reading what you said if sounds like another woman liked him but had respect that he was married. But ask him just to clarify this.
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): What context was this said in? Its something that would only need saying where something had been going on. I think you need to ask more questions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2007): Ummm see what you mean.You have to QUESTION HIM.does he mean he tried it on with another woman..and she refused and respected the fact he was married..or the other way arround?...DOESNT SOUND GOOD EITHER WAY.Sorry..but you have to talk with him.Why would he say this...he is trying to cover his tracks
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