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writes:i been with my boyfriend for a year now, and everything has been fine but the last couple months have really started going down hill. like im afraid im going to get hurt and i think he was cheating on me but i dont know if i believe him even when he says hes not, like he sits there and crys cause it kills him to think that and we fight over the little things. i will addmit it i do have a trust issue with all guys cause i had nothing but problems in the past and the guy im with now he wants to marry me, and wants to move in to a house together, and later down the road have kids with me. so what do you guys think is he telling the truth and i just need to learn how to believe him or should i leave him??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell he goes out alot and he says hes going to his friends house and he never asks me to go but we do live together now with my parents untill im 18, so it might just to get away for a while but he dont answer his phone when i text or call him and he comes home late. but i cant go anywhere really cause i dont have many people to hang with cause they dont really like him much and thats why i get mad cause i dont have anywhere to go and he dont ask me to go with him. but everytime i tell him we are done we work things out and i think if he was cheating he would of left and plus all my friends who know him told me not to trust him thats why i have trust issues
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 June 2010):
You need to really work on your trust issues here. Seriously. I know you've been treated badly by other guys, but he has given you absolutely no reason to think that he's cheating. Not one. There is no evidence there of any kind. There's not even circumstantial evidence where we could tell you to dig deeper. This is based purely in your mind. The poor guy practically breaks down when you suggest it. Unless you have evidence, there is no reason to distrust him. And if that's the case, then you need to deal with your trust issues. The way I see if from your post, there is nothing at all to suggest he's cheating.
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