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writes:i been dating this man for five years and hes married he stop seeing and then he wants me back for a few days then he out looking for some one new his wife lives up north and he lives here its like he likes having his cake everything else i get hurt bye him i feel i should write or call his wife to let her know i love him and its hard for me to let go i need some answer to help me to just walk away, hurt Reply to this Question
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Hi,
I know you love this man, but he's not for you. You know his intensions, so why stay with him for 5 years? After all these years if things didn't change, I don't think it ever will. Don't you think you deserve someone that can be with you only, all the time? Don't you want an exclusive relationship, someone that you can build a future together?
Don't contact his wife, she has done nothing to you, and it's not your responsibility to let her know the truth. Also, doing so won't change anything, and won't make him stay with you.
Hope you make the right decision.
Good luck
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Move on and don't ever look back. He's never going to leave his wife and I'm afraid you were just a bit of fun for him. Acknowledge that and find someone who wants you and loves you and is there for you. Wasting your time thinking about this cheater means you are missing out on other oportunities passing you by.
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