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anonymous
writes:after 5 years of torment through my ex's single woman behavior, lying yet at the same time she was jealous, attacking me when we got home and destroying my belongings if a woman ever looked at me. She also cheated. We have been broke up 6 months,and in this time shes had 1 night stands and cried tears over another dumping her. why is it she is still bitter and on a campaign to destroy my life? She never says to me or anyone the reasons i went, only ever says that i broke her heart. It has been 6 months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): thanks all. She initialy wanted a no strings but after we grew she imposed rules on me but believed i had no say. This reared within the first month of moving in with her. It sounds petty but she has continued it since her last guy dumped her also for cheating. She has kept that quiet too. Apparently she stated all men are users and i cant get my head round why she doesnt realise cheating leads to break ups.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (11 September 2011):
 Hate is the flip side of love so when someone hates you it means they actually still care about you. She is doing this because deep down she still really wants you and she doesn't want anyone else to have you. She's to be pittied really because she obviously doesn't know what she wants and is quite unhappy in herself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2011): Because she lacks empathy. The only things you can do besides getting an order are hope she meets some one else very soon, get back with her,or get even.
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reader, anonymousTA  +, writes (11 September 2011):
She wants her cake and to eat it too. In other words she wants a companion and someone to come home to and to love her no matter what and be loyal to her yet she wants the single lifestyle and the attention of other males too she sounds like a major attention seeker and a very jealous person as well. You just need to stop all contact with her all together which will drive her insane.. but hopefully then she can find another person to obsess over and you wont have to deal with her anymore!
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