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writes:What do you think this message means ?. It's from a guy that i know. He said "i want us to be close but you never reply much and yes we got on great and i ruined it as i didnt want a relationship and now your with your boyfriend i am just wanting to be friends but without him i would still want to be friends but do you want to meet up with me ?". Do you think he is saying that he wishes he was going out with me, or could he just be after one thing ?. Reply to this Question
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reader, oldbag +, writes (3 January 2013):
 hi
He wants to be your FWB, not boyfriend,he's testing the water.
Ignore it,don't risk messing up your new relationship.
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reader, Jeanette82 +, writes (3 January 2013):
 He means he wants a blow job (an uncomplicated one).
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (3 January 2013):
 When a guy writes: "...."i want us to be close but you never reply much and yes we got on great and i ruined it as i didnt want a relationship and now your with your boyfriend i am just wanting to be friends but without him i would still want to be friends but do you want to meet up with me ?"... it MEANS... "I really want to get you to bed... and I believe that if I write to you a missive which is sufficiently pedantic and cloudy you will be all confused.. and will turn to me for clarification.. and I will suggest to you that we go to bed, where I will clarify it for you beyond a reasonable doubt....."
I hope this clarifies the matter for you.....
Good luck..
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reader, anon_e_mouse +, writes (3 January 2013):
 He's a wimp and he's saying "I want you to go out with me again".
Walk away. Say "no thanks, that would be disrespectful to my boyfriend".
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2013): Looks very much like he wants to meet for a hookup. He's not asking for another chance to be your boyfriend...just to cop a feel when your real boyfriend isn't around. Nothing to get too excited about unless you like being used.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2013): Littlemonster, it was me who wanted a relationship with him back then, but he didnt. He had recently broken up with his ex then.
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reader, kenny +, writes (3 January 2013):
 I would treat it as water under the bridge to be honest, he knows that you are in another relationship now so he should not even be texting you stuff like this to be honest. I think he want's to gage whether he has a chance with you or not. I would refrain from meeting him, i feel if you do it will cause complications with your current partner. Leave this guy in the past where he belongs and get on with your life.
Good luck
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reader, R1 +, writes (3 January 2013):
 He is asking whether if he could still have you if he wanted to. It's an ego thing so I wouldn't go there!
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (3 January 2013):
 Could somebody have got hold of his phone to send that?
If yes, make sure its not a friend of his stirring things up, if no, he sounds very childish, he is saying he wants to be friends but he doesnt want your boyfriend to know, or be there when you meet up.
Doesn't sound like he is much of a catch to me, this is one fish I would be throwing back in the ocean!
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