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What do you think of the emails my boyfriend and his ex exchanged?

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Question - (26 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *edshoes83 writes:

Annoying emails!

Hi again,

So my boyfriend and I got together he has been split up from his ex a couple of months, but he broke up with her and was not over it, so she started to stir a few rumours up. I told him i thought he should email her to make sure that they are ok, and give her a chance to appoligise. As I believe it is better to not have any animosity. He didn't want to email her as he was annoyed about what she was saying about him, but did it anyway to make the peace.

In her email back she said 'I was proper in love with you boy, and i was hurt so i said some stupide things and I am sorry' so that was okayish, but he showed me his reply which was ' i loved you too, but we just ended naturally and its a shame, but it didn't work out' and that was it.

Thing is, i am glad that they are friends again, but reminising about how they loved each other is a bit too far dont you think? But then again, he did show me the emails and it is no secret that they were together for a long time and ofcourse they loved each other, i would just rather they dont email it to each other..?

Am i being ridiculous as he wouldn't show me the emails if there was a problem would he?

me and him have an amazing realtionship other than this, just wondering what your thoughts are on the subject?

Thank you!

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A male reader, Sphronas United States +, writes (26 August 2009):

Sphronas agony auntHe is honest with you and those emails state quite clearly that they are talking about the past. For now, this does not seem to be something that you need to worry about.

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