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writes:Hi there, I just broke up wit my boyfriend yesterday and needed to know if I did the right thing or if I just over reacted. Me and my ex dated for a year which in that year I cheated on him twice but later on told him bout it, and he forgave me. We then broke up cause I couldn't do long distance, but got back together after 6 months, so it's been a year and 3 months now and I seem to be getting a temper lately and was always taking it out on him. We talked about it and I said I would change, but he still wasn't convinced because he said I can't love you as much so if I find someone else I might leave you.At first I said fine, till he told me about this girl he liked. I wasn't bothered about it till I read his mail and found out that his been planning with this girl and telling her that he wants to be sure who he wants to be with, if it's her or me, the girl even broke up with her boyfriend for mine, now I didn't know about all of this till yesterday. So I told him that he can't be half in half out. I know I've done him wrong but I don't think I should be punished like that, having my heart played with like that is not right, so I made him chose, I told him she goes or I go. Then he told me that he doesn't like the way I'm bossin him around and giving him ultimatums. So he said he's gonna stop talking to her when he's sure who he wants to be with. So I left. We love each other so much and had planned our whole lives together. This really pains me...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i think i now know wer i stand wit him, he said he wants to make it work wit me and he doesn't want anything to do wit that girl,
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (19 March 2009):
 As time passes, you will realize to what extent you did the right thing.
Wish you the best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think it makes me feel so much better knowin that someone else thinks it was the right thing. Thanx
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reader, andrew loves hali  +, writes (18 March 2009):
 you did the right thing so dont go and blame yourself. you didnt over react. the heart shouldnt be played around with like that.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (18 March 2009):
You did the right thing. You have to know where you stand with him.
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