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writes:I recently was able to check on cell ph records which confirmed my suspicions that my fiance has been having some long conversations with another woman. It stopped a couple of months ago but should I confront him or let it go? It does bother me but at the same time I feel guilty about looking thru cell ph records. I want us to talk about this situation without letting him know how I found out. Any suggestions?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses, but yes I know this is a woman because I recognize the ph #'s he has incoming calls from and they belong to an x-sister in law. majority of calls are incoming so could it be that he is getting involved with her or still have contact with his x? How do I approach him? The calls finally stopped a couple of weeks but still bothers me that it continued for a few months. Please Help, should I let it go?
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reader, MissKin  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 two months ago? i think, no offense, that perhaps you're being overly suspicious hun? I mean, i've had hour long conversations with a sales market person :P how do you know this person is female anyway? And what made you susicious enough to look through his records? If you bring this up YOU will be in trouble. And if he's not doing anything and you accuse him of something u mite chase him into doing something. If this is just a random thing u came across i think u should look at it a different way. The cat that goes looking for an angry dog will always find one, where as my cat stays at home and there is no angry dog.
in other words, (sorry for the strange analogy), if u've no other reason to be suspicious let it go and be happy that it's only a one off conversation that you're obsessing about :):):)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (6 July 2010):
 Can that woman be an aunt? You know those 80 year olds who are just so glad to have someone to listen to her.
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