Shall he ever call me again even to apologize

Question - (5 July 2010)

2 Answers - (Newest, 8 July 2010)

A female age 41-50, *oba writes:

2weeks ago I was going through some hard time at work and I was very sick,my boyfriend who is 23 years older

than me did not stand by me, I called him and he said fine, I told him I sense

you want to break up with me, he said no. I told him that would be our final

call and I am shocked why didn't he tell me he wants to break up. he said say

whatever you want I will call you later but not today. On the next day I called

him once he did not answer, I did the same on the following day, I stopped for

three days and then I called him he had a waiting call and then I called again

he did not answer. I called once on the following day he did not answer, and I

skipped a day, I then SMS him and told him pls pick up the phone for a nice

goodbye betwen two civilized people. He did not. I SMS again saying that I

wished we could both show respect to one another and say adieu in a friendly way

so that we can both go on in life with no feeling of shame or guilt and that I

would alwasy remember whatever good he did and forget the disrespect. He did not

respond to eitehr SMS or call me back and I did not call him since and that happened five days ago. What is

aching me is that I feel so confused why so, why not saying it right to my face.

And even when i SMS him politely and with no intention to stalk him he did not

even call, I mean I gave him a nice way if he wants to dump me to do. I really

wish to know what happened but I can never call him again and don't know if he

will call me. Right now I feel so humiliated and deceived as I came to realize that all what he said were lies.

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A female reader, hoba +, writes (8 July 2010):

hoba is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks, you really calmed me down.

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A female reader, ctds001 +, writes (7 July 2010):

The one thing I've learnt in life, as long as there is no big bust up, they always make a way back.

I've had a few boyfriends end things with explaination and after some time they always find away to contact me.

Just leave him alone now and know that one day he'll contact you with the closure you want now.

Good luck x

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