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writes:I met this girl at an event in Manchester about 12 weeks ago who i realy liked and I think she liked me too as i noticed her looking at me a lot even when i was not looking i could sense her looking at me and she smiled at me as well. i did not follow up on this at the time because the importance of the event or ask her about this as we were always with other people and the last time i saw her she did not say goodbye. did i upset her by not doing anything about this situation? even after all these weeks i can not get her out of my head or the way i handle the situation i hope i did not hurt her in anyway or made her think i was not interested in her as i do not live in the same area as her i do not think i will see her again or get a chance to chat about this which is realy fustrating i realy like her what can I do? how best should I handle this situation if it happens again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2008): Use your contacts and friends to try and find out who she is and where you might have a chance to meet her again. You did not say whether you even knew her name. If it was an organizational or academic function, it should not be that difficult. If you have the chance to meet her again, just be openly friendly and tell her you were sorry that you did not have a chance to speak with her again last time. I don't think there is a reason she would have been "upset" with you personally that you did not. Looks and glances can be confusing, sometimes. But it is safe to say she found you "interesting". Anyway, "Faint heart never won fair maid" (smile).
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