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What do you do when she tells you she had sex with a stranger?

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Question - (22 November 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *ermanville writes:

what do you do if you break up with your girlfriend of 8 months then you date someone else for only a month no sex then get back with your ex then she tells you she needs a break after a week and you get back together and after a month passes in the middle of sex she tells you she has sex with somebody she doesnt know but says all she could think about was me and it only lasted 2 minutes and she started crying because she didnt feel right while yall were broke up?

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A female reader, MissUnique United Kingdom +, writes (22 November 2008):

MissUnique agony aunt"What do you do when she tells you she had sex with a stranger?"

Nothing.

You weren't dating when she did that so why would things be bad?

She's said she stopped it because it didn't feel right because she wanted to be witth you.

Ever seen the series FRIENDS? Where Ross and Rachel break up, then he sleeps with someone, then she blames him.

Why blame your gf? She hasn't done anything wrong.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (22 November 2008):

DoubleM agony auntWhat would I do? Well first, I would come to the realization that I was screwing up the relationship myself, or at least contributing. It matters not at all whether you engaged in sex while the two of you were "broke up" - simply because the relationship was "off" during that time. She had no obligation to you whatsoever during that time.

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