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writes:iv been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and we've had sex and everything but i cant seem to get enough courage to give him head.hes fine with it but i really want to. iv only done it once before, im just scared i will be shit! help me? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (22 November 2008):
doubleM has the right idea. getting him to tell you what he likes is not only exciting for him but also great for you. once you know what he likes you can put your own little twists on it and try some new techniques.
also if you dont want to put the whole of his penis into your mouth then simply suck the top and wrap your hand around the lower part of his penis, this way you stimulate his whole penis and it looks like more of his penis is going into your mouth then it actually is. you can also start off by simply kissing and licking the top of his penis while you stroke him with your hand then when you feel abit more comfortable with the taste/feeling of him you can suck down to where you feel comfortable. remember his balls too. while sucking him give them a little bit of a feel, guys love that. also between his balls and his anus is a little area that they liked to be rubbed.but dont put your finger near his anus. you dont want to freak him out. unless he likes that sort of thing.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (22 November 2008):
 If you want to, and you have once pleasured someone this way, it is hard to imagine that you would "be shit" at it. There is little that can go wrong. Even if he has previously received 10,000 excellent blow jobs, a new woman giving it a go is anything but boring. Try to consider it from a man's point of view - if you want to (despite little experience), and the guy enjoys it, then it is a wonderful lesson in male sexual release. Many on this Web site resent my 46 years of sexual experience, so I try to avoid too much bravado, but I have taught an untold number of women how to give head the way I like it, and it was always an exquisite joy. Give your guy a chance to teach you. Check out this site's archives for suggestions, which would no doubt be very helpful.
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