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writes:I think my boyfriend might leave me. I thought everything was ok between us, but I'm not sure if he's still in love with his ex. He says he loves me but why does he care so much about what happens to her. If he cares that much, then why isn't he with her? Me and him are so in love, so I thought. But if he has feelings left for his ex, then how do I deal with it.
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reader, the one who doesn't know  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 I agree with emporessmystique . When you share something like a relationship, you end up caring for the other person, even though you don't want to be with them anymore...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): Hai,we are going thought the samething dear,i want to tell you that you need to talk to him about the true fleeing how he flees about you not only cause he says he loves you,talk to him about your relationship future.tell him how you truely loves him so that maybe he can come to he's senses that you are the only one he loves & let him tell you why the relationship ended with the ex maybe you can know if he still has the fleeing for the ex.what is in your hand it's yours hold it cause it's yours.
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reader, sparkleworks  +, writes (7 December 2008):
 If it feels sincere when he tells you he loves you, then it's entirely possible that he has no romantic feelings left for his ex. Are there any other signs apart from him caring what happens to her? I happen to care a lot about what happens to my exes - at one point, they were a huge part of my life, so I like to catch up every now and then and make sure they're doing okay. I guess it depends on the circumstances of their breakup, maybe it was really amicable and the two of them are well suited to being friends.
Like Ginalolabridga has already said, try to be a bit patient with him. Try to tell him what's bothering you, and if he sincerely assures you that there's nothing more to it, then I'd believe him. He's with you now.
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reader, katatonik +, writes (7 December 2008):
 It's quite possible that he still has feelings for her, and if such is the case, only time will help him get over this. Whether you are willing to wait around while he sorts his feelings out, or not, is something only you can decide. Good luck =]
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